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  • Should you be friends with your ex or not?

    Scientists have an answer to this

    Before you offer your ex-girlfriend friendship, check this study out.

    A new study answered a question that tormented everyone who had ever been in a relationship with anyone: should I be friends with my ex?
    The study was led by a specialist in social psychology, Dr. Justin Lehmiller. He received at his full psychological disposal 350 people aged from 20 to 30.

    They all compiled a list of reasons why it makes sense to maintain relationships with an ex. After analyzing all the opinions, the Lehmiller team identified 7 main reasons:

    1. sentimentality;
    2. pragmatism;
    3. love;
    4. children or other mutual belongings;
    5. remained platonic sympathy remains;
    6. maintaining social status;
    7. quick access to a sexual partner.

    Then, the study participants were asked to explain the reason why they maintain relations with an ex. It turned out that the most popular reason to continue friendship is sentimentality. But pragmatism - for example, delicious food, which was in a girl’s refrigerator, or her hot roommate — is in the last place. The remaining points are harmoniously distributed between these extreme ones.

    Also, all study participants passed personality tests. It turned out that most often they were friends with ex those who were inclined to manipulate others and find a personal gain in everything. So do not relax if your ex every now and then offers to drink coffee, - perhaps she only needs your ability to perfectly make macchiato from you.

    Actually, when answering the question of whether it is worth making friends with an ex, pay attention to your motivation. At least, that was the conclusion that Dr. Lehmiller came to during the course of the study. That is if you are guided by material gain or are in search of meaningless spending time in bed together, make friends with an ex as much as you (and she) like.

    But if you have a sentimental reason, it is better to abstain from friendship. Otherwise, you risk becoming a victim of your own unrequited feelings for the ex.

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  • Scientists have found a connection between the number of sexual partners before marriage and the divorce

    And it's not like you thought!

    Studies conducted at the University of Utah (USA) have shown that there is indeed a connection between the number of premarital partners of a woman and the probability of divorce. But the situation is not at all the way you most likely thought. It turned out that the highest probability of a divorce is for women who had one partner before her wedding.

    Nicholas Wolffinger, a professor at the University of Utah and a professor at the University’s Department of Sociology, surveyed 10,000 women and made a chart, where the X-axis is the number of partners and the Y-axis is the number of divorces.

    It turned out that the number of divorces among women with one partner is as high as 30%.

    In general, the table looks like this:

    • 1 partner - 30%
    • 2 partners - 14%
    • 3 partners - 11%
    • 4–5 partners - 18%
    • 6–9 partners - 14%
    • From 10 partners and above - 18%

    Unfortunately, scientists have not given a clear explanation for this phenomenon, except for the rather obvious that women compare a husband with her ex. So, when the next time you hear the sacramental "You are my second," keep your eyes open!

    #sex #exolover #partner #divorce #ex #women
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  • Why does she call you by another name during sex?

    Scientists have explained why she screams "Yes, Roger!" during sex, even if you are not Roger at all.

    Perhaps this explanation will even calm you down.

    Professor Jim Pfaus from Concordia University in Montreal explained that if she calls you by the name of her ex during sex, it doesn’t mean that she thinks about him. It was her brain that returned to that blissful state that she experienced while having sex with him, and then she gave you the first association - his name.

    In other words, you are having sex with a girl just as well as her ex, and in gratitude she automatically calls you by his name.

    Yeah. Thank you, Professor, it helps (sarcasm).

    #sex #exolover #name #ex #exboyfriend #boyfriend #science
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  • How many two of you should have sexual partners in past to be the perfect couple?

    Hi there ExoLover subscribers and users, what number of ex-partners did you consider acceptable for your soul mate?

    Scientists from the University of Leeds (United Kingdom) conducted a survey on the IllicitEncounters.com dating site. The main question was: how many lovers your new partner should have in past? The majority of respondents (38% of men and 37% of women) gave the number from eight to twelve. Nevertheless, both men and women consider the best number of ex-sexual partners as 10.

    Further polls showed that if your sexual experience exceeds 10 partners, people around you will find you indiscriminate. It is noteworthy that such a sign of promiscuity is alarming for men. In general, if a person had more than 20 partners, 4% of men and 3% of women would agree to go out with her/him.

    At the same time, research participants consider those who had less than 10 sexual partners inexperienced.
    And one more thing: although, as women are more comfortable with a large number of their men partners in past according to the study, do not rush to tell your girlfriend the exact number of your exes! Only 35% of women would like to know the exact number.

    #sex #exolover #partner #ex #exes #promiscuity
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