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  • Two factors that affect cheating in marriage, according to science

    And this is not Betty from work and not Veronica from next door.

    When the treason hangs over the marriage, the temptation is to blame objective factors, not tied to you. For example: “We have been married for 19 years, and for the last 16 years I have been sleeping on a cot in the bathroom”; “My mother’s wife moved to us, and now I don’t want to return home”; “My wife’s fitness instructor moved to us, and now it’s painful for me to return home.”

    As scientists at the University of Florida have found out, cheating depends on two factors that you are able to manage.

    In a study published in the Journal of Personal and Social Psychology, scientists talked about the conclusions made after studying personal data from 233 married couples.

    Moreover, scientists have been collecting data for three and a half years. During this time, some couples managed to divorce, some cooled to each other, others, on the contrary, were imbued with even greater mutual sympathy.

    So, the first factor that scientists have identified is called “divert attention”. The subjects were shown photographs of attractive people of the opposite sex. It turned out that those respondents who quickly looked away from photographs, refusing even the possibility of temptation, were more faithful in marriage.

    That is, if you want to live a long life next to one person, try not to stare at strangers. Do not be tempted.

    The second factor - “depreciation of the alternative” - was calculated using the same pictures of attractive people. Only this time, the study participants were not just shown photographs of beauties, they were shown two photos at once, while one depicted a very beautiful girl and the other completely unremarkable. Respondents were asked to rate the visual appeal of the characters in the photo.

    So, those who claimed that a very beautiful girl was “so-so,” or put her on the same level of attractiveness as unremarkable, these holy people can count on a long and strong marriage. That is, they immediately depreciate the one who could lead them to cheat.

    Someone will say that both factors are hypocrisy. Maybe. But they will help someone who decided that the second wedding will not be reasonable.

    #sex #exolover #marriage #cheating #factors
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  • Rallies in Indonesia against the law banning sex before marriage

    Indonesian authorities propose criminal penalties for sex before marriage. Citizens who break prohibition may spend a year in prison. If the law is passed, women who decide to have an abortion can also be behind bars.

    Protests against the adoption of the law took place not only in Jakarta but also in several other major cities of Indonesia. In the capital, however, there is a riot - the protesters threw stones, sticks and other rubbish at the police.

    The law enforcement officers in response used water cannons and tear gas.

    It is noted that the consideration of the bill banning sex before marriage was scheduled for September 24. The current president of Indonesia, Joko Widodo, decided to postpone the consideration of the law because of the outbreak of mass protests.

    #sex #exolover #indonesia #marriage #law
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  • Partners in couples with very sexual life, more often cheat on each other

    A new study proves that active sexual life is not a reason for marital fidelity.

    It is believed that if a married couple has a busy sex life, then this is wonderful. But just now, scientists came up with the news that could fundamentally destroy the illusion "a lot of sex in marriage is good."

    The Journal of Personality and Social Psychology published the results of a study conducted by scientists from the Department of Psychology at Florida State University.

    The study was long and painstaking: for three and a half years, scientists monitored the family life of 233 young couples, carefully documenting their mood, details of their sexual life, the possibility of cheating and even a change in their matrimonial status. Researchers extracted all these data using meticulous tests and shameless surveys of married couples.

    And that’s what turned out. In those couples which had “excellent”, “terrific” and “wow!” sex, cheating occurred more often than in those in which the attitude towards sex was neutral-friendly.

    Scientists believe that the relationship between rich sex life in marriage and out of marriage (i.e. cheating) is related to temperament, sexual preferences of spouses and a more frivolous attitude to sex. That is, if the partners in a marriage are constantly trying something new, thereby qualitatively improving their sex life, they are not afraid of the idea of being close to someone else.

    But those couples who do not lose their heads from sex and do not show miracles of acrobatics at night in bed, are less prone to cheating.

    #sex #exolover #cheating #marriage #adultery
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  • Women are cheating on their husbands in order to save the marriage

    This was discovered by scientists at the University of Missouri.

    The study was conducted by Professor Alicia Walker, who interviewed unfaithful wives for a year and published the results of her research in The Secret Lives of Cheating Wives book.

    Walker’s study involved women between 24 and 65, who cheated on their husbands and were active users of the Ashley Madison - dating website to find a partner for adultery. The survey showed that in most cases women’s love for their spouse and the desire to avoid divorce by satisfying their sexual needs are pushing women to commit adultery.

    “More than half of the women I interviewed admitted that in their relationship with her husband they have a lack of sex or an orgasm, and as a result, they are looking for passion by cheating. I also managed to find out that most of the unfaithful wives do not want to divorce their husbands and claim that they love them,"- said Walker.

    In addition, women who participated in the study considered that after adultery they became better wives and mothers than they were before it. They were also convinced that cheating allowed them to protect and save their marriage.

    #sex #exolover #wife #cheating #adultery #marriage #benefits
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  • A wife should be significantly shorter than her husband, and here's why!

    The research that would make clear your family life.

    Science has long been known the fact that women prefer tall men to their short kind. The inexorable process of evolution has formed a firm certainty in women: the lonely giant will protect her better than the squad of pygmies, and will even shoot the most powerful mammoth and reach for the ripest bananas.

    Science Direct publishes a curious survey, the authors of which wondered if there is a relationship between the happiness of a woman in marriage and the growth of her husband.

    They conducted a study with 7850 people and found: yes, there is a relationship, and a direct one: the happiest in the matrimonial union were women, whose husbands significantly exceeded them vertically. And the greater the difference in growth in favor of the husband, the happier his wife.

    However, there is a nuance: such a correlation weakens with time, and after 18 years of married life disappears completely.

    First, only 18 years will be difficult; second, growth is not all. History knows many precedents when a tall wife happily lived with her shorter husband.

    #sex #exolover #marriage #husband #wife #tall #short
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