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  • People are having 7 minutes less sex than they need to

    American scientists have concluded that people usually spend less time on sex than necessary

    According to researchers, sex should last at least 19 minutes so that partners can achieve orgasm. The study pointed out that the average duration of sexual intercourse of most couples usually 12 minutes.

    According to Men's Health specialists studied data on the sexual activity of 432 couples who used special mobile application Lovely. Thus, in the final study, the parameters of more than two thousand sexual contacts appeared.

    Scientists have noted that couples in the US state of Maine make love for about 20 minutes and are usually happy with their personal lives. Their neighbors in Michigan spent seven minutes on sex, so the number of people who wanted to change something in their relationship was much higher.

    In this regard, it is worth recalling that women are less likely to get an orgasm if sexual intercourse lasts less than 30 minutes. In the estimated time, it is also necessary to include foreplay that “warms up” the partners.

    #sex #exolover #time #pleasure #relationship
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  • Polyamory: shame or urgent need

    An alternative relationship is still considered as something reprehensible. But please, being heterosexual and living a whole life with one person is too boring. At least, adherents of polyamory - a system, which approves the sensual relationships of partners with other people and welcomes unconventional ties - say so.

    Polyamory differs from polygamy and if you practice polyamory, this does not mean that you sleep with everybody. This means that you have partners who know about each other and know how often you sleep with each of them. The whole system of polyamorous relations is based on trust, responsibility, ethics, and awareness. If you observe all these pillars of polyamory, then your relationship can be called happy and harmonious.

    Let’s think about immoral things. What is more wrong: to secretly live in two families, making all your loved ones and yourself unhappy, or to be in a relationship with more than one partner publicly? Polyamory implies honesty. There is no place for betrayal and promiscuous sexual relations. Fans of a standard relationship may think that polyamory is chaos, but in fact, it is an orderly system in which everyone knows their rights and obligations. It motivates people to take a more responsible approach to their relationships and deal with such destructive feelings as jealousy and hatred.

    However, polyamory is not suitable for everyone. If you have low self-esteem, you are paranoid and tend to be subject to manipulation, it is better to get a husband or wife, and then children and take care of your cell of society. In polyamorous relationships, you have not one partner, but several, and this means that your responsibility increases exponentially. You must be sure that each of your partners is healthy, that you use contraceptives with everyone, that you do not go crazy with jealousy and do not turn into a monogamous partner, giving preference to someone of your lovers.

    In addition, polyamory is completely unprofitable. With a couple of partners, you can’t buy a house and a car, you won’t have children; you don’t invest in the future. Such relationships so far seem rather fleeting, because they are unlikely to withstand a serious crisis. Polyamores are together as long as they feel good with each other: otherwise, they scatter, and everyone remains with their problems.

    #sex #exolover #polyamory #relationship #love
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  • Where did all the sex go?

    Experts gave us 5 reasons for intimate problems in a long term relationship

    Often partners who have been in a relationship for a long time lose sexual interest in each other.

    Low interest in sex, especially after many years of marriage, can be caused by various reasons.

    1. Anger. Some people use sex (or rather, its absence) as a weapon against the one they are angry with. Both women and men do this. In this case, you need to find the cause of anger and associate this with the unwillingness to have sex.

    2. Attraction. In some couples, the attraction was initially low. For example, if this is a marriage of convenience or a way to have a better life. So, sex has always been a problem, and over the years it has not been possible to convince yourself that there will still be some.

    3. The demand for sex. Some partners (usually men) believe that a woman should be ready for sex anytime, anywhere. Although this is not true of course. Similar situations give rise to an aversion to intimacy per se.

    4. Control. With the help of sex, you can control the behavior of another person, proving to him (or rather, to her) that with good behavior, there will be sex. This is the relationship of the abuser with the victim, which in no circumstances is considered the norm. So, the problem is much deeper.

    5. Transfer from the past. Sometimes the root of the problem with sex is the unfortunate past relationship, and the person transfers them to the present. In such a situation, it is better to work with the help of a specialist.

    #sex #exolover #issues #relationship #solving
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  • Girls with unattractive boyfriends are happier

    New research has shown that the unattractiveness of a partner has one big plus for relationships.

    A study by the Department of Psychology at the University of Florida confirmed that yes; you deserve a much more attractive girl than yourself. Moreover, you make happy only this kind of girl.

    Scientists analyzed personal data of more than 200 newlyweds aged 20 years old. The questions were related mainly to the eating habits of the respondents, their daily self-care procedures and their overall attitude to the appearance.

    It turned out that those women who considered their husbands more attractive were constantly dissatisfied with their appearance. They were on diets and exhausted their bodies with fitness only to match their more attractive husband. They were also constantly feared that this more attractive husband would meet someone more attractive.

    At the same time, those women who were more attractive than their husbands felt happy. They did not torture themselves with sports and diets and did not worry that their unattractive husband would run away. That is, they were enjoying their stable relations and their high self-esteem.

    #exolover #relationship #ugly #boyfriend #girl
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  • First sex in your relationship: what mistakes you could make

    The first sex in a relationship is like a first impression: it may be wrong, but it will certainly be remembered. You kind of showing your boyfriend what he will be facing further and it would be great if he does not want to run away immediately. And even if everything is perfectly planned by you (although it is better not to plan anything), some mistakes will inevitably happen.

    1. Turn sex into pornography. Sure, you want to impress him, but here it’s easy to overstep a bit. Most likely, you still do not know each other so well. A little later you will try it all, but this time let everything be more or less traditional.

    2. Engage in unprotected sex. Again, you hardly know each other well enough to decide not to wear a condom.

    3. In the morning, act as if there was nothing. You are an adult girl now - you had sex at night and both of you remember that very well. Therefore, throw away such thoughts like "what will he think about me now?" or "oh, he saw me naked."

    4. Spend all the next day with him. Of course, if this is not your mutual desire. But in general, it is worth making him understand that there are other things and priorities in your life.

    5. Panic if he does not call after sex. Sometimes the guys wait 2-3 days before calling, and not because he does not want to hear you, but in order not to look disreputable. Therefore, do not panic immediately and consult with your friends.

    #sex #exolover #tips #first #relationship
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  • How many women are ready to have a vacation fling?

    You will be pleasantly surprised! And then unpleasantly surprised, remembering that you are going on vacation with your wife.

    What can brighten up the vacation of a lonely or pretending to be a lonely person better than a vacation fling?

    Researchers at the training center "Sex.rf" from Russia interviewed 652 women, and the survey showed the following inspiring results. 55% of women surveyed had holiday fling, that is, every second one!

    And for 48%, a holiday fling was just an easy non-binding entertainment. Only 10% are convinced that vacation fling can develop into a serious relationship with all the consequences.

    As you can see, the statistics itself is blessing you on frivolous vacation relationships. In any case, we hope that you will behave with your resort darling as a gentleman, turned out to be in swimming trunks with a pattern of bananas by chance.

    #sex #exolover #vacation #holiday #fling #romance #relationship
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  • 8 amazing facts about sex

    And they are all true!

    Much has been written about sex, and more research has been done. Scientists from all over the world consider it their duty to study the topic of sex life up and down. We have collected the most amazing research and facts about sex for you.

    1. Women in a lesbian relationship are more likely to have an orgasm.
    2. Female animals sometimes look unattractive to avoid harassment and ward off unwanted male attention, sometimes sacrificing the opportunity to attract the best male.
    3. A quarter of all men imitated orgasm at least once in their lives.
    4. A woman in red is considered as a potential threat because she is more interested in sex, according to other women.
    5. People who often watch porn are more tend to feminism. In general, scientists have found that boys and girls that watch pornographic content more often begin to have more respect for women over time.
    6. Men who have had more than 20 sexual partners are less susceptible to disease and will live longer.
    7. Perfect sex should last from 15 to 20 minutes.
    8. Scientists from the Maastricht University of the Netherlands give humanity 35 years to enter a new reality. They claim that by 2050 people will be able to marry robots and have sex with them as well.

    #sex #exolover #facts #Interesting #science #study #relationship
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  • 8 things that your girlfriend hates, but does not tell you about it

    Things women can't stand, although you always thought they loved

    Joint bath

    It is obvious that the bath of the standard size was not conceived by nature as storage for two human individuals.

    Giant stuffed animals

    A huge teddy bear will occupy living space for years collecting dust, and he cannot even be told: “Find a job!”

    Flower delivery to work

    First, it’s a cliché. Second, an attractive colleague who showed me tricks with a stapler is now aware that I have someone. Third, my female colleagues are now placing buttons on my desk and looking at me over their monitors. Yeah. Thanks for the flowers.

    Your female friend

    Even if you have never had anything with her and never will, she is still a woman. And this regrettable fact will always keep me in suspense.

    Spooning sleeping

    It is impossible to achieve high-quality sleep if a snoring creature clings to you with a tight grip.

    A T-shirt that your mom bought you

    Of course, I will say that the shirt with "My son is a King" on it is cool and funny. Because I am a good girl and do not swear.

    When you find inspiration in porn movies

    Porn movies are a business. Often the actors are having sex in uncomfortable positions that allow them to demonstrate everything. So stop lifting me above your head, standing on one leg during sex!

    When you do not ask for sex

    It’s great that you respect my rights and personality of course, and do not insist on sex ... But in general, the hell with it! The more often you ask, the more I become convinced of my own attractiveness.

    #sex #exolover #girl #girlfriend #love #hate #relationship #man
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  • How to go through all her tests

    If your girl creates problems out of the blue, maybe she is just checking you. Here is a guide on how to pass those tests.

    Test for confidence

    After the date, the girl answers on one SMS out of three and is busy all the time? Perhaps you have shown self-doubt and female instincts have become wary. Now she checks whether it was an accident or it was easy to bring you out of balance.

    How to pass it. The golden rule: if there is no obvious reason for her cooling off or resentment, just reflect her behavior.

    Test for domination

    Does she angry and argue any of your opinions? Perhaps you are too easy for her. And she needs her father equivalent to order her and buy her toys. This often happens with girls from single-parent families.

    How to pass it. It would be a mistake to soften the edges. You just give her some fuel for broomstick on which she flies. Pull her up, give her reprimands, and raise her like a child. Unless, of course, you do like psychological incest.

    Test for reliability

    Her parrot is sick with caries, and the bank requires paying off a loan for lipstick? You showed indifference to some of her problems, and now she is checking whether she can rely on you.

    How to pass it. Throw yourself at the solution of her problem, while discussing in detail how she is turned out to be in such a situation. The girl will be convinced of your reliability, and after seeing your meticulousness, she will stop inventing new incidents.

    Test for patience

    She cannot think about sex for some reason, but you sleep together? She wants to make sure that not only sex is important to you, but also her rich inner world.

    How to pass it. Treat her with understanding, but mention how hard it is to change sex with her on vulgar porn sites. Any girl understands that the comparison with porn actresses is not always in her favor, and tries to distract you.

    #sex #exolover #test #check #patience #dominance #relationship #love
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  • An unexpected way to improve sex and relationships.

    Although, it is not for everyone.

    A recent survey conducted by American scientists among two thousand couples showed that sleeping in separate beds can have a positive effect on married life. At least, more than one third of respondents said that the decision not to spend the whole night next to each other had a beneficial effect on relationships and sex.

    Many couples suffer from the fact that they prevent each other from getting enough sleep at night. One of the spouses may snore, toss and turn at night, or simply wake up a partner earlier. In this situation, some resort to "sleep divorce" and spend most of their nights on different beds.

    The survey showed that 34 percent of couples who decided to sleep separately felt that the quality of their sex life improved, and 38 percent reported an improvement in relationships in general. The authors of the survey tend to associate this with the fact that good sleep contributes the improving one’s well-being, mental state, and mood, which, in turn, can have a beneficial effect on relationships with a partner and give strength in the intimate field.

    However, experts emphasize that the relationship within each couple is individual so that sleeping in different beds can hardly be called a universal recipe for improving any relationship. Moreover, the survey shows that often the improvement in the quality of sex was accompanied by a decrease in its quantity while they had “sleep divorce” because sleeping in different beds gave less “reasons” for them to have it.

    #sex #exolover #improvement #sleep #together #divorce #relationship #love
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